There is a quiet tragedy to young love for those who did not receive the love they needed in childhood. Often, it is not the absence of feeling, but a kind of emotional blindness - a veiled alexithymia - where awareness struggles to register what the body already knows. Their first loves are often only recognised in hindsight - not because they did not love the other, but because they did not realise they already did.

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My channel was unexpectedly banned for a few hours due to a glitch in the Telegram system. Thankfully, it’s now restored — but during the downtime, we lost a lot of valuable members.

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Thanks for being part of the community — let’s keep pushing forward!

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Often individuals seek a significant other in the hope of being completed, when what they truly desire is to be completely seen, comprehended, and accepted - so that they may finally accept themselves as already complete. What they truly long for is not a fixer, but a loving witness.

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As you progress through life, you will notice that science often lags behind intuited knowledge. Many of the connections you make intuitively will later be "proven" by science - after methodological research involving defined parameters, rigid structures, and measurable outcomes has been applied.

The truth is, not everything can be measured, easily sampled, or explored at a level that captures the entirety of the intricate web of interconnections - for nothing exists in a vacuum.

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A winner's mindset is really the ability to reframe every situation in a positive light, and have a chuckle if possible - because the worst-case scenario is that you walk away armed with more wisdom and a great story.

You can't rewrite the past, so don't waste any more of the present trying to fix it. Enjoy the hiccups in life - and remember, sometimes a hot shower, a hearty meal, and a good sleep can help you realign. Brass tacks.

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There is a niche coming-of-age question that tends to arise among highly intelligent outlier individuals, usually around the age of nineteen or when they first begin to seek deeper social bonds. They often find themselves questioning whether they might be narcissistic or even psychopathic - due to their tendency to operate at a highly logical level. Yet they are also intuitively aware that this is not the case - because alongside their logic lives an innate capacity for profound empathy.

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"She went quite. I haven't heard of her anymore."

She begged you with her actions, with her tears, with her silence, to love her the way she deserved. You ignored her every single time. She begged for human decency! She fought for you than she ever fought for herself. She made excuses for your behavior and kept believing the version of you that didn't even exist. And even after all that.. YoU still continued to break her heart. You knew exactly what you were doing and you knew it would hurt her, but somehow that didn't stop you. That's sickening."

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Beauty is in being yourself. It is important to accept yourself, and not to strive for the approval of others. Do not try to become a magnolia, remain a beautiful lotus flower. In pursuit of recognition, you will lose your happiness and strength. Enjoy your uniqueness, accept and love yourself as you are.

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Your life is a reflection of your determination. Only those things that you dare to do will be present in it. Don't be afraid to take risks and move forward, because it is your courage that determines your path.

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One of the most transcendental experiences for an overthinker is to be overtaken by liquid music - to be entirely consumed by the moment, eyes closed, as the melody flows through you - your body moving rhythmically on its own, drawn to the beckoning siren call that fills your soul - one with existence.

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Your childhood has an enormous impact on you. Your lived experiences during this time molded your patterns of thinking and behavior, and influenced how you saw the world. Parental expectations - whether they were excessively high or entirely absent - can create a constant pressure to be "perfect", or a feeling of carelessness coupled with a lack of self-esteem. A family environment that was defined by instability, a lack of emotional connection, or traumatic events can lead to feelings of concern and danger. Challenging relationships with our parents can affect our behavior around others, impacting our ability to form healthy bonds and leading to social anxiety.
But despite this, our childhood experiences don't have to define us forever, and through accepting what you've lived through and understanding generational curses, you can adopt a more positive view of yourself and your future.
So yes! You are able to change, grow and reinvent yourself- and this is what we'll do together through this book.

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No man leaves a woman because she's broke. Men leave when they're disrespected, undervalued and unloved.

Do you agree with us? yes drop a ❤️

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Dating is fun but also educational. After some time of trying to bond intimately with someone, you slowly start to notice your personal triggers. Your emotional deficits. The things you thought you were good at become things you’re actually not so good at. How could you have known, if there was no one around who could push that button.

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When you love someone, time is no object, but the memories are always stamped in your heart. I think it would be foolish for you to be so young and try to escape already what love has to offer. Don’t make the same mistakes, Go out there and live and love. In the end, we always regret the choices we didn’t make, the love we didn’t accept and the dreams we didn’t fight for.
‘When feelings are pure and the heart is true, even God is forced to change destiny,

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Loneliness is often misinterpreted as depression - a fluctuating state. But it is not medication that one needs - it is true, resonant, meaningful connection - the kind where the soul not only feels, but believes it is genuinely comprehended.

It is one of the most powerful realisations.

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I have recently realised that what I love and respect in others is their courage - the kind where they face things head-on, even when they are unsure, uncomfortable, overwhelmed, or even a little scared. Perhaps it's because true courage is so rare in a world where most choose passivity, comfort, and familiarity.

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A soulmate is a person with whom you feel a connection on the level of emotions and interests. You can find it in different people, the main thing is to believe in the existence of such a soul and look for it among those around you.

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It all starts with self-love

It is believed that self-love is the purest and highest form of love. If a person does not like who he is, then this negatively affects all areas of his life. And this fact pulls a person down.

And remember: no one and nothing can spoil your mood until you do it yourself.

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Find your courage and create the brightest, happiest and coolest version of yourself. Explore your values, passions and dreams, define your goals. Develop courage, get out of your comfort zone, overcome your fears. Form a positive mentality, work on personal development. The path to self-development is continuous, each step brings you closer to the best version of yourself. Believe in yourself, accept challenges and create your bright and happy future.

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