I want the universe to send me someone to love. I'm not going on dating apps, or clubs, or anything where hook up culture is glorified. I want someone to find me where I least expect it and I want it to be real. I want it to be something we both can be proud of.

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be the person who still tries after failure, after frustration, after disappointment, after exhaustion, after heartache, be the person who musters up the courage to believe that a new attempt can manifest a new outcome. be the person who never loses hope.

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be careful with your words because you never know how many times they repeat in someone's head & how significantly they can affect someone's mental health. pls be kind.

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hustle culture has made us believe that its always about pushing harder everyday; no! sometimes it's about knowing when to slow down and give some rest to your mind and soul. Remember self-care isn't selfish – it's necessary.

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sometimes it's hard for us to explain how we feel because we don't always understand why we feel the way we feel. we need someone who is patient enough to understand our silence, someone to be there for us so we don't feel alone.

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A few weeks in. And you will feel better. And everything that hurts right now won't be as intense. Time does that to feelings. It dulls them down, so they no longer cause any pain. Soon enough you'll be better. And maybe you won't forget about the things that hurt you. But they sure won't affect you in the same manner as they do now. Give yourself some time. And be patient with your healing. Everything will soon make sense. Everything will soon fall into place.

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never be embarassed ; of your outdated home, your years old clothes, of choosing public transport to save money when other are having their own cars, of your imperfect shape, of your dad's old car, of not being able to buy expensive gifts for your loved ones or not being able to go for expensive trips across the world.
never be embarassed of whatever life has given you.

be grateful as it might still be a dream for someone.

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bossing up isn't always about material things, it's also about growth, a new mindset, not being too accessible, not hanging around people who don't serve a purpose in your life, not letting anyone trigger your peace of mind, not entertaining toxicity, strictly just priorities & being in your lane. that new you gotta be untouchable.

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it's okay if you overloved.
how were you supposed to know
that not all hearts beat the same.

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I have never regretted my silence. but my speech -- I have regretted it many times.

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if you don't understand why somebody is grieving for so long over something, consider yourself fortunate that you do not understand.

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anything I do for someone is out of courtesy or love. you'll never have to worry about me having a hidden intention because I don't expect anything in return.

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I have no desire to fit in. No plans to walk with the crowd. No expectations to be invited in parties. I dont crave for someone to accompany me. I don't seek attention or validation. I have my own mind, heart and soul. I can go for solo drives. I can have a cup of coffee alone. I am enough for myself and it has taken me a while to realise how important that is.

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no. you don't love me. you love the versions of me that I spun for you. versions of me you've constructed in your mind. the easy versions of me. the easy parts of me to love. but you don't love me.

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i have been asked about my biggest fear, or what scares me the most. and I know they expect an answer like fear of heights, or closed spaces, or an animal. but how do I tell them that I am scared of the fact that most people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it. nothing makes me anxious more than the fact that a person on whom you've bet your life can flip with a blink of an eye.
nothing saddens me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought that all the stars of this universe were in my eyes. nothing scares me more than the thought of healing from someone i once chose to heal with.

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healthy communication, reassurance, reciprocated energy, respect & patience.
love isn't as complicated as we make it look.

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I've always thought how lovely it is to be bored with someone. Not bored of them but being bored with them. Like I have nothing to say but can I quietly exist with you today? My day is slow, do you want to sit & have a cup of coffee with me? We don't have to be interesting or entertaining all the time to keep each other a company. We can just be comfortably completely ourselves.

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"your trauma made you stronger". NO.. my trauma made me traumatized. it gave me health issues. it made me lose my appetite. it made me weak. it gave me anxiety & fear. and it gave me feelings i've never wanted. its ME who gathered enough courage & made myself stronger again.

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