قال ابن القيم رحمه الله في «زاد المعاد»(2/23):
للذّكْرِ تَأْثِيرٌ عَجِيبٌ فِي انْشِرَاحِ الصَّدْرِ
وَنَعِيمِ الْقَلْبِ،
وَلِلْغَفْلَةِ تَأْثِيرٌ عَجِيبٌ فِي ضِيقِهِ
وَحَبْسِهِ وَعَذَابِهِ.

ــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said in 'Zad Al -Maad' (2/23):

The remembrance of Allaah has an amazing effect of ease, serenity and tranquility within the heart and chest. Whilst on the other hand, negligence of Allaah's remembance causes tightness, constriction and torture to the heart and chest.


💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

اجتناب المعاصي في الأشهر الحرم

قال الله تعالى: ﴿ إِنَّ عِدَّةَ الشُّهُورِ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ اثْنَا عَشَرَ شَهْرًا فِي كِتَابِ اللَّهِ يَوْمَ خَلَقَ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ مِنْهَا أَرْبَعَةٌ حُرُمٌ ذَلِكَ الدِّينُ الْقَيِّمُ فَلَا تَظْلِمُوا فِيهِنَّ أَنْفُسَكُمْ ﴾ [التوبة].

🍂روى ابن جرير الطبري في «تفسيره»(14/238)عن قتادة في قوله: ﴿فلَا تَظْلِمُوا فِيهِنَّ أَنْفُسَكُمْ﴾ قال: فإن الظلم في الأشهر الحرم أعظم خطيئةً ووِزْرًا من الظلم فيما سواها، وإن كان الظلم على كل حال عظيمًا، ولكن الله يعظِّم من أمره ما شاء.
ــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

Avoid sins in the sacred months

Allaah said:
﴿ إِنَّ عِدَّةَ الشُّهُورِ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ اثْنَا عَشَرَ شَهْرًا فِي كِتَابِ اللَّهِ يَوْمَ خَلَقَ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ مِنْهَا أَرْبَعَةٌ حُرُمٌ ذَلِكَ الدِّينُ الْقَيِّمُ فَلَا تَظْلِمُوا فِيهِنَّ أَنْفُسَكُمْ ﴾ التوبة36].


*{Verily, the number of months with Allaah is twelve months (in a year), so was it ordained by Allaah on the Day when He created the heavens and the earth; of them four are Sacred, (i.e. the 1st, the 7th, the 11th and the 12th months of the Islaamic calendar). That is the right religion. So wrong not yourselves therein}. (At-Tawbah 9:36)

Ibn Jarir al -Tabari رحمه الله تعالى said in his explanation of this verse: 🔰

On the authority of Qatada رحمه الله تعالى: *{Wrong not yourselves there in}*. Verily sins in the sacred months are greater and graver than in other months, even though sins are grave at all times.
Allaah سبحانه و تعالى magnifies what He wills from His affairs as He wills.
(14/238)


💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

تطهير بيت الله الحرام من تصوير ذوات الأرواح
---------------------------------------
قال الشنقيطي في «أضواء البيان» (4/ 298): لَا شَكَّ أَنَّ دُخُولَ الْمُصَوِّرِينَ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ الْحَرَامِ حَوْلَ بَيْتِ اللَّهِ الْحَرَامِ بِآلَاتِ التَّصْوِيرِ يُصَوِّرُونَ بِهَا الطَّائِفِينَ وَالْقَائِمِينَ وَالرُّكَّعِ السُّجُودِ - أَنَّ ذَلِكَ مُنَافٍ لِمَا أَمَرَ اللَّهُ بِهِ مِنْ تَطْهِيرِ بَيْتِهِ الْحَرَامِ لِلطَّائِفِينَ وَالْقَائِمِينَ وَالرُّكَّعِ السُّجُودِ.
فَانْتِهَاكُ حُرْمَةِ بَيْتِ اللَّهِ بِارْتِكَابِ حُرْمَةِ التَّصْوِيرِ عِنْدَهُ لَا يَجُوزُ لِأَنَّ تَصْوِيرَ الْإِنْسَانِ دَلَّتِ الْأَحَادِيثُ الصَّحِيحَةُ عَلَى أَنَّهُ حَرَامٌ.
وَظَاهِرُهَا الْعُمُومُ فِي كُلِّ أَنْوَاعِ التَّصْوِيرِ، وَلَا شَكَّ أَنَّ ارْتِكَابَ أَيِّ شَيْءٍ حَرَّمَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُ مِنَ الْأَقْذَارِ وَالْأَنْجَاسِ الْمَعْنَوِيَّةِ الَّتِي يَلْزَمُ تَطْهِيرُ بَيْتِ اللَّهِ مِنْهَا.

ـــــــــــــــــــــــ

*Purifying the Sacred House of Allaah from Depictions of Animate Beings*
---------------------------------------

Ash-Shanqiti رحمه الله تعالى said in:
اضواء البيان"4/298

There is no doubt that allowing the entry of cameras into the Sacred Mosque (photographing the pilgrims standing, bowing, prostrating and circumbilating the Ka'bah, is contrary to that which Allaah has commanded with to purify His Sacred House for the pilgrims who are standing, bowing and prostrating.

Picture taking of living souls is prohibited as narrated in authentic narrations.

Partaking in such actions in the sacred House of Allaah سبحانه و تعالى is violating the sanctity of the House of Allaah and this is apparent in all the narrations in general which prohibits photographs, and there is no doubt that committing such actions which the Messenger of Allaah صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ has forbidden are from spiritual impurities which the House of Allaah must be purified from.


💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

منْ علامات نقصِ العقْل
الرياء
📕قال الشوكاني في«قطر الولي» (440): ومن عجز عَن صرف نَفسه عَنهُ فَهُوَ من ضعف الْعقل، وحمق الطَّبْع بمَكَان فَوق مَكَان الْمَشْهُورين بالحماقة.


ـــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

Signs of Low Intelligence: Showing Off

Al -Shawkani said in “Qatar Al -Wali” (440): “Whoever is unable to dismiss himself from showing off, it’s due to having low intelligence level, and weak mind. Also, it’s due having a foolish nature. Such person is so foolish that he exceeds the foolishness of the most foolish of people.



💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

••🍁#الآداب🍁••


◾️من حقوق الوالِدَيْنِ الدعاء لهما ◾️



🍁عنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: " إِذَا مَاتَ الْإِنْسَانُ انْقَطَعَ عَنْهُ عَمَلُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ ثَلَاثَةٍ: إِلَّا مِنْ صَدَقَةٍ جَارِيَةٍ، أَوْ عِلْمٍ يُنْتَفَعُ بِهِ، أَوْ وَلَدٍ صَالِحٍ يَدْعُو لَهُ "رواه مسلم(1631).




🍃قال الطيبي في «شرح مشكاة المصابيح» (1/361): المعنى إذا مات الإنسان لا يكتب له بعده أجر أعماله لأنه جزاء العمل وهو ينقطع بموته إلا فعلًا دائم الخير مستمر النفع.

📌 مثل: وقف أرض، أو تصنيف كتاب، أو تعليم مسألة يعمل بها، أو ولد صالح ،وكل منها يلحق أجره إليه.

🍂وإنما جعل ولد صالح من جنس العمل، لأنه هو السبب في وجوده وسبب لصلاحه بإرشاده إلى الهدى.


كما جُعل نفس العمل في قوله تعالى:{إِنَّهُ عَمَلٌ غَيْرُ صَالِحٍ }[هود: 46].


📌وأما فائدة القيد بـ<الولد يدعو له> مع أن الغير من المسلمين لو دعا له لنفعه أيضًا فزيادة للبيان ،وتحريض للولد على الدعاء وأنه كالواجب عليه. اهـ

___


•• 🍁Etiquettes ••🍁


🍂 *One of the rights of the parents is that the child supplicates (makes Dua) for them*🍂

🍁 Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه reported that the Messenger of Allaah (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said:

“When a person dies, his deeds come to end except for three things: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge or a righteous child who supplicates for him (the deceased).”
Narrated by Muslim (1631).

Al-Tibi said in “Sharh Mishkat Al-Masabih” (1/361):

▪️Meaning:
After a person's death, the reward for his deeds come to an end except for those righteous deed which are beneficial, permanent and are of continuous benefit.

📌 Example:
Gifting land for the purpose of charity only, publishing books, spreading beneficial knowledge or raising a righteous child.

All of the above examples have their own specific reward.

A righteous child is included as a righteous deed because the parents are the reason for his existence, piety and righteousness by way of spiritual guidance.

Similarly, Allaah سبحانه و تعالى mentioned how the children can be referred to as an unrighteous deed:

Allaah سبحانه وتعالى said, referring to the son of Nuh:
*{إنه عمل غير صالح}*

*{he is a deed which is unrighteous}.*
(Hud: 46).

📌 The benefit of specifying about the child who supplicates for him in the narration:

If other than the child were to supplicate for the deceased from amongst the Muslims, it would surely be of benefit to him also.
But for the purpose of further explanation and encouragement, the obligation upon the child to supplicate for their parents is stressed as an obligation.



💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

قال ابن القيم رَحِمَهُ الله في «الوابل الصيب»(41) في فوائد الذكر:
الذكر يطرد الشيطان ويقمعه ويكسره،
ويُرضي الرحمن عز وجل،ويزيل الهم
والغم عن القلب، ويجلب للقلب الفرح
والسرور والبسط، ويقوي القلب والبدن،
وينوّر الوجه والقلب، ويجلب الرزق.

ـــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

Ibnul -Qayyim, رحمه الله تعالى said in “Al -Wabel Al -Saib” (41) regarding *Benefits of Dhikr* (remembance of Allaah):

Dhikr expels, suppresses, weakens and breaks Satan.
At the same time, dhikr pleases The Most Gracious, The Merciful, The Exalted, The Majestic and at the same time removing worry and grief from the heart.
It also attracts and brings joy, happiness and delight to the heart whilst strengthening and fortifing the heart and body.

Dhikr illuminates and sheds light on the face and heart, and brings forth livelihood (provision).


💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

منْ علامات نقصِ العقْل

الاغترار بالدنيا

📘قال ابن القيم في «طريق الهجرتين» (253): فما اغتر بها، ولا سكن إليها إلا ذو همة دنية، وعقل حقير، وقدر خسيس.
ـــــــــــــــــــــــ
Signs of Low Intelligence: Being Deceived by this World

Ibn al -Qayyim said in: Tareeq Alhejratain” (253): “No one is deceived by this life, nor is content with it except those with low ambitions, despicable minds, and low self-value.



💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

قال الحافظ أبو الفداء إسماعيل بن عمر بن كثير رحمه الله:
وَالْخُشُوعُ فِي الصَّلَاةِ إِنَّمَا يحصل
لمن فرغ قلبه لها، وَاشْتَغَلَ بِهَا عَمَّا عَدَاهَا، وَآثَرَهَا عَلَى غَيْرِهَا،
وَحِينَئِذٍ تَكُونُ رَاحَةً لَهُ وَقُرَّةَ عَيْنٍ، كَمَا قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي الْحَدِيثِ
الَّذِي رَوَاهُ الْإِمَامُ أَحْمَدُ وَالنَّسَائِيُّ عَنْ أَنَسٍ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ
أَنَّهُ قَالَ: «حُبِّبَ إِلَيَّ الطّيبُ وَالنِّسَاءُ، وَجُعِلَتْ قُرَّةُ عَيْنِي فِي الصَّلَاةِ»
تفسير ابن كثير
ــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

Al-Hafiz Abu al-Fida Ismail bin Omar bin Katheer, رحمه الله تعالى said:

“Having Concentration and submissivness in prayer can only be achieved when one devotes their heart and focuses on it.

One should not have any form of distraction and should make the prayer his *only* priority. It is only then, his prayer will be a source of relaxation, consolation, delight and pleasure for his eyes.

As our Prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم said in the hadeeth narrated by Imam Ahmed and Al-Nisaee on the authority of Anas:

”It was made dear and beloved to me fragrance, women (his wives) and the pleasure of prayer which is the coolness of my eyes (i.e. nothing brings delight like prayer).”
~Tafsir Ibn Kathir



💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

🌺عدم تهديد المرأة بالطلاق🌺

📌من أسباب تفكُّكِ الأُسَر: تهديد المرأة بالطلاق، والشرع حريصٌ على بناءِ الأُسَرِ وليس هدمَهَا.


📘قال الشيخ ابن عثيمين في «سلسلة اللقاء الشهري»(رقم اللقاء: 31): أما مسألة الطلاق فلا تذكره أبدًا عند المرأة، الرجل إذا ذكر الطلاق عند المرأة صار هذا الشبح أمام عينها نائمة ويقظانه، وهذا غلط؛ ولهذا من السفه أن بعض الناس يذكر كلمة الطلاق لامرأته، حتى ولو للتهديد.
🍂يا أخي: هددها بغير هذا، تهددها بالطلاق فيبقى الشيطان دائمًا يعمل في قلبها، حتى تؤدي النهاية إلى الفراق، والعياذ بالله.

ـــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ


*Do not Threaten the Women with Divorce!*

📌 Among the reasons for the break up of families:

Threatening the woman with divorce is a means of destruction, whilst the legislation encourages to support and preserve the families.


📘 Sheikh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله تعالى said in the “Monthly Meeting Series” (meeting number: 31):

As for the issue of divorce, it should never be mentioned to a woman.

The utterance of divorce by a man to the woman results in a nightmare which disturbs her even during sleep and wakefulness. And this is wrong!!

Threatening the wife with divorce is utter foolishness.

Oh My brother! If you have to threaten her, do it without threatening her with divorce.

Threatening her with divorce causes Shaitan to always whisper in her heart, until the end result is separation. We seek refuge in Allaah from this.


💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya

قال ابن القيم في «الجواب الكافي»(74): ومن عقوبات الذنوب: أَنَّهَا تُزِيلُ النِّعَمَ، وَتُحِلُّ النِّقَمَ، فَمَا زَالَتْ عَنِ الْعَبْدِ نِعْمَةٌ إِلَّا بِذَنْبٍ، وَلَا حَلَّتْ بِهِ نِقْمَةٌ إِلَّا بِذَنْبٍ، كَمَا قَالَ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ: مَا نَزَلْ بَلَاءٌ إِلَّا بِذَنْبٍ، وَلَا رُفِعَ إِلَّا بِتَوْبَةٍ.وَقَدْ قَالَ تَعَالَى:
{وَمَا أَصَابَكُمْ مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ فَبِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَيَعْفُو عَنْ كَثِيرٍ} [سُورَةُ الشُّورَى: 30] .

وَقَالَ تَعَالَى:
{ذَلِكَ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ لَمْ يَكُ مُغَيِّرًا نِعْمَةً أَنْعَمَهَا عَلَى قَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ} [سُورَةُ الْأَنْفَالِ: 53] .
ـــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ

✒️ Ibnul-Qayyim رحمه الله تعالى said in "الجواب الكافي":

*From the Punishment / Penalties of Sins*

Punishments and penalties of sins causes the favours and blessings to cease and vanish and trials to occur.

Therefore, no blessing or favour ceases from a servant except due to a sin that was committed. The same applies with regards to being afflicted with a trial which is due a sin committed.

As Ali ibn Abi Talib has said:

No affliction descends except due to a sin (that was committed), nor an affliction lifted except by way of repentance.
.
Allaah سبحانه و تعالى said:

{وَمَا أَصَابَكُمْ مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ فَبِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَيَعْفُو عَنْ كَثِيرٍ} [سُورَةُ الشُّورَى: 30]

*{And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned. And He pardons much.}*
[Ash-Shura 42:30]

Allaah سبحانه و تعالى said:

{ذَلِكَ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ لَمْ يَكُ مُغَيِّرًا نِعْمَةً أَنْعَمَهَا عَلَى قَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ}
[سُورَةُ الْأَنْفَالِ: 53] .

*{That is so because Allash will never change a grace which He has bestowed on a people until they change what is in their ownselves. And verily, Allash is All-Hearer, All-Knower.}*
[Al-Anfal 8:53]



💻Blog Link:


🔵https://alwadei967.blogspot.com


📱The Official English channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwadeia

📱The Official Arabic channel of our Sheikha Umm Abdullah, daughter of Sheikh Muqbil Al-Wadei may Allah preserve her:

🔵https://www.tg-me.com/alwad3ya