Shaykh Sāliẖ al-Fawzān (حفظه الله) said:

“If the woman is lost, the household will be lost.
If the household is lost, then the children will be lost.
If the households are lost, then the community is surely lost!”

[Muhatharah fī ʿAqīdah, pg. 162]

Call your wife with beautiful names! It's Sunnah :)

Calling one’s wife with the name she loves most or with a nickname is one of the forms of pampering and being kind to one’s wife. This can be seen in the life of Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) who, in a saying ‘hadith’ that is agreed upon by scholars, used to say to His wife ‘A’isha: “o ‘A’ish, this is Gabriel saying peace be upon You.” She replied:” and may peace and Allah’s mercy and blessings be upon Him. You see what i don’t ”She meant the messenger of Allah (ﷺ)

Sahih al-Bukhari 3768

He also used to call ‘A’isha: (‘Homayraa’) a short form of (‘hamraa’) which, according to Ibn Kathir in ‘An Nehaya’, means the white skinned woman with blushed cheeks. Adh-Dhahabi also said that “Hamraa’” in the language of the people of ‘hejaz’ means white and blushing-a rare feature among them. So Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) used to treat ‘A’isha kindly and call her with lovely names.

Chapter: Who is more entitled to lead the prayer

Abu Mas'ud al-Ansari reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:

The one who is most versed in Allah's Book should act as Imam for the people, but If they are equally versed in reciting it, then the one who has most knowledge regarding Sunnah if they are equal regarding the Sunnah, then the earliest one to emigrate; if they emigrated at the same time, then the earliest one to embrace Islam. No man must lead another in prayer where (the latter) has authority, or sit in his place of honour in his house, without his permission.
Ashajj in his narration used the word," age" in place of" Islam".

وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَأَبُو سَعِيدٍ الأَشَجُّ كِلاَهُمَا عَنْ أَبِي خَالِدٍ، - قَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَالِدٍ الأَحْمَرُ، - عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ رَجَاءٍ، عَنْ أَوْسِ بْنِ ضَمْعَجٍ، عَنْ أَبِي مَسْعُودٍ الأَنْصَارِيِّ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ يَؤُمُّ الْقَوْمَ أَقْرَؤُهُمْ لِكِتَابِ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانُوا فِي الْقِرَاءَةِ سَوَاءً فَأَعْلَمُهُمْ بِالسُّنَّةِ فَإِنْ كَانُوا فِي السُّنَّةِ سَوَاءً فَأَقْدَمُهُمْ هِجْرَةً فَإِنْ كَانُوا فِي الْهِجْرَةِ سَوَاءً فَأَقْدَمُهُمْ سِلْمًا وَلاَ يَؤُمَّنَّ الرَّجُلُ الرَّجُلَ فِي سُلْطَانِهِ وَلاَ يَقْعُدْ فِي بَيْتِهِ عَلَى تَكْرِمَتِهِ إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ الأَشَجُّ فِي رِوَايَتِهِ مَكَانَ سِلْمًا سِنًّا ‏.
Sahih Muslim 673a
Book 5 Hadith 365

If You Really Want To Disobey Allah...


It is reported that a man once went to Ibraaheem ibn Adham and said,
"O Abu Isḥaaq, I continually wrong my own self, and I turn away from everything that invites me to improve my way of life."

Ibraaheem said, "If you can fulfil five conditions, then sinning will never harm you, and you can fulfil your desires as much as you want."

The man exclaimed, "Tell me those conditions"

Ibraaheem said, "As for the first, if you want to disobey Allah, then do not eat from His sustenance."

The man said, "What then will I eat, for everything on the earth is from His sustenance?"

Ibraaheem said, "Listen! are you being sensible when you eat from His sustenance while you are disobedient to Him?"

The man said, "No. What is the second condition?"

Ibraaheem said, "If you want to disobey Allah, then do not live in any of His lands."

The man said, "This is even worse than the first. All that is in the East and West belong to Him. So where then will I live?"

Ibraaheem said, "Listen! if you insist on disobeying Him while you eat from His sustenance and live in His lands, then at least look for some spot where He cannot see you, and disobey Him there."

The man exclaimed, "O Ibraaheem! how can I do that, when He even knows the deepest secrets that are in the breasts of men? What is the fourth condition?" he asked desperately.

Ibraaheem said, "When the angel of death comes to take your soul, then say to him, 'Give me some respite, so that I can repent sincerely and perform good deeds.'"

The man said, "When the time comes, the angel will not accept that plea from me."

Ibraaheem said, "Listen! if you cannot put off death in order to repent, then how do you expect to be saved?"

The man asked, "Tell me the fifth condition."

Ibraaheem said, "When the guardians of Hell-fire come to take you away on the Day of Resurrection, don't go with them"

The man exclaimed, "They won't let me go!"

Ibraaheem asked, "Then how do you expect to be saved?"

The man replied, "Stop, stop! that is enough for me. I ask Allah to forgive me and I indeed repent to Him."

The man then dedicated his life to the worship of Allah from that day.

A young man said to al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله:

“The night prayer makes me tired.”

He replied:

“These are your sins which have chained you.”

صفة الصفوة 3/166

💎 The Khawarij are People of the Worldly Life

A man from the Khawarij came to al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله and said to him: ‘What do you say about the Khawarij?

He replied: ‘They are from the people of the worldly life.’

He said: How can you say this while one of them walks with his spear until he breaks it and he leaves his wife and children?

Hasan al-Basri said: Tell me about this ruler. Does he prevent you from establishing the prayer, or from giving Zakat, or from performing Hajj and Umrah?

He replied: No

So Hasan al-Basri said: So I see that he only withheld from you some of the worldly life and you fought him for it.

البصائر والذخائر ١٥٦/١

Ibn al-Jawzī رحمه الله said: "The less knowledge a person possess; the more devil will be able to deceive him."

‎[تبليس إبليس صحفة ٥٠٨]

The best provision is TAQWA

Shaykh Muḥammad ibn Ṣāliḥ al-ʿUthaymīn رحمه الله said:

“The veiled woman who covers her face, and you will see that she is safe, secure, with decency, and dignity.

Greedy people don't covet her, nor dogs circle around her.”

[Silsilah Fatawa Noor ala al-Darb, no. 268]

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🔥Do You Know About Hell ?

قال الله تعٰلى في القرآن المجيد:

وَمَآ أَدْرَىٰكَ مَا سَقَرُ
اور تجھے کیا خبر کہ دوزخ کیا چیز ہے؟
Aur tujhe kya khabar ke dozakh kya hai?

لَا تُبْقِى وَلَا تَذَرُ
وہ باقی رکھتی ہے نہ چھوڑتی ہے ۔
Woh na baqi rakhti hai na chhorti hai.

لَوَّاحَةٌ لِّلْبَشَرِ
کھال کو جھلسا دیتی ہے۔
Khaal ko jhulsa deti hai.

عَلَيْهَا تِسْعَةَ عَشَرَ
اور اس میں انیس ( فرشتے مقرر ) ہیں ۔
Aur us mein unnais farishte muqarrar hain.

[ Al-Muddaththir : 27-30 ]

Shaykh Abd al-Razzāq al-Badr حفظه الله said:

"A woman should (always) remember that although her beauty may attract many men, she will eventually leave this world. She will be placed in a hole and covered up with dirt, and her beauty and her splendor will then vanish as.. earthworms devour her body. Her good deeds and actions will then hold her hostage.”

[Maw'idhah an-Nisa, pg. 39]

A parable of those who know the explanation of the Qur’an:

Imam al-Qurtubi mentioned the following narration in part of the introduction to his tafsir:

وقال إياس بن معاوية : مثل الذين يقرءون القرآن وهم لا يعلمون تفسيره ، كمثل قوم جاءهم كتاب من ملكهم ليلا وليس عندهم مصباح ، فتداخلتهم روعة ولا يدرون ما في الكتاب ; ومثل الذي يعرف التفسير كمثل رجل جاءهم بمصباح فقرءوا ما في الكتاب . ـ
Iyaas ibn Mu’aawiyah said: Those who recite the Qur’an without knowing its explanation are a like a people who receive a letter from their king during the night but do not have any lamp. Apprehension comes over them, for they do not know what the letter contains. But the person who knows the explanation is like a man who bring them a lamp so that they can read what is in the letter.

[Tafsir al-Qurtubi 1/41]

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MEN want a righteous woman but are you yourself as righteous as you want your future wife to be?

It’s sad when I see brothers flirting, chatting away with non mahram women.  Going to places where it’s haram.  Have foul language, smoking, vaping etc.
When you ask these brothers what type of wife they want. They reply “A righteous, upright, pious one”

I only have one question for such people, How do you expect a righteous spouse while you yourself are far away from deen❗️

On the other Hand, We have other kind of breed on Social Media known as "Alpha Males"  with toxic masculinity who consider themselves as Something like they are king or what in dominating position and always criticise women, disregarding  and considering them as Slut or Whore  (Allāh's refugee is sought) and tend to create an image of women as if they are criminal or what. Subhan Allāh ❗️

As a Muslim, our sole Ideal should be Prophet Muhammad ﷺ - How he treated everybody especially women!

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said

أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ خُلُقًا

The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.

📖 Sunan al Tirmidhī 1162 | Sahīh

Always remember, Good men are for good women,  and Good women are for Good men

If you want a Pious Spouse, then be pious and free from Haram relationships first.