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Are they any government agencies or panchayat teams that help with palliative care in kerala

My family is from Thalassery. Apologies if this is a wrong place to post this. I just don't know where to go.

Can anyone suggest any sort of help from government agencies. We can't afford private care and home nurse are expensive. We need help with her medical care. Not monetary assistance, just medical.

My grandmother is not doing well. She is 89, has dementia, is bed ridden and has a bad case of hernia. Surgery is impossible due to a multiple of health complications. She reacts very poorly to hospitalization. She gets violent and it might trigger an epilepsy episode.

Basically at this point my mom and my aunt are a mess. Grandmother is refusing to eat. My mom and I live in Mumbai, we will not be able to help my aunts a lot. We need help.

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What in the actual f___ is wrong with my teacher?!

So, I, 14f, study in a private school. We have this creepy English teacher(55m, gonna retire after next year, he is also married and has 2 daughters) who rub girls on their backs (mostly searching for their bras) and digs into the waists of boys with his long ass nail. He also stares at the thighs of girls when he's just teaching. He has like half hugged me if that makes sense (which my parents told was just him trying to establish a rapport because i have some awesome friendships with my mentor-teachers) and I just shot a dirty look. He hasn't done anything since, thank god for that. Even when kids came to our school for some programs (especially a 12 year old who was clearly uncomfortable) he was rushing to them and was stroking their backs. My seniors nearly beat him up and made rumours about him. He just played the victim card. Even teachers know a bit about his kozhitharam. Im trying the best to avoid him but this mfer is so damn annoying. Im sitting in the front now and it doesn't help since it's his favourite spot to teach (not even that much, just weirdly interacting). Last day he just rubbed the back of my classmates, both male and female, and they were visibly distressed. However this uluppilatha guy still does it. What in the actual fuck is wrong with him, and if he does this once again, how should I respond

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Social media and grooming concern

My sister is currently in 9th grade, and over the past two years, I’ve been witnessing an escalating pattern that's deeply worrying. When she was in 6th-7th grade, she was in a "relationship" with a classmate named Rishi who was one year older. Last year in 8th grade, during a family trip, I learned through a truth or dare game that she was frequently messaging a guy named KP on Snapchat—he was in 11th grade and from a different school. My parents dismissed my concerns about Snapchat safety and communication with older boys at the time. Now, in 9th grade, she is messaging a college first-year student and also recently had a relationship with a 9th-grade repeater named Anjal, who is about 15-16 years old. This relationship ended after a teacher caught them holding hands at school. I’ve seen texts where Anjal admits to being drunk multiple times, and she advises him not to drink, which shows she’s taking on an inappropriate care-taking role. He has also been involved in fights with college students and shares those details with her.Worryingly, she tells me people say she looks much older than her age, and someone recently told her she has "manly shoulders"—an uncomfortable comment for a 14-year-old. Her classmates fear her and call her "gunda" (a Hindi word for a thug), indicating a drastic change in her personality and how she’s perceived. I believe she’s been groomed—predators often use compliments about looking mature to manipulate young victims. The age gaps in her relationships keep increasing, she’s being exposed to unhealthy and adult behaviors like alcohol and violence, and her judgment around relationships is clearly compromised.I’ve tried talking to my parents, but they tend to react emotionally rather than think calmly or take concrete action, leaving me frustrated and anxious. The fact that a teacher has already intervened in one relationship but the situation continues makes me fear her safety and mental well-being are at serious risk. I’m also worried this could escalate to exploitation or abuse.

I have used perplexity to summerize the situation. If anyone have delt with a situation similar to this please give advice.

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Update on my pedophile teacher

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Kerala/comments/1p3o75i/what\_in\_the\_actual\_f\_is\_wrong\_with\_my\_teacher/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button

Hello there. Im back. If you havent read my original post, the link is given above. Basically it is about my creepy teacher with sn unhealthy obsession towards kids. After three panic attacks, a lot of tears, and an impossible amount of courage, i told my parents everything, including the details. They told me just shut up and don't care. Seriously if I had the opportunity, i wouldve killed the mfer. But my parents told that it would be bad to complain about a teacher because this is just "not that important and gruesome". Imma vent now. That guy hugged me, made me literally sniff his sweat by keeping his hairy amrpit so close to my face, pats me on the head like a fucking dog, and replies with a very bloodcurdling laugh. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I feel like this is injustice to everyone --- from that girl who cried because he was staring at her thighs to my classmate who had that guys nail squeeze under his shirt --- and all because of parents thinking that they've faced worse. Im already doing quite bad mentally, and with the lack of support for such serious issues, im pretty sure im nit opening up about more personal ones.

To all the redditors who supported me, made me feel safe, and understand that this was not our problem at all, thank you. And I mean it. I'll never forget the kindness and safety you made me feel. Im trembling typing this, because i know that if my parents find this out, ill be six feet under. Seriously. That guy is a pedophile who doesn't deserve the sympathy, support, and trust the parents and teachers give him. Considering that even my parents don't care about such a huge issue that kinda sorta maybe affects my mental health (which is already in the gutter), im pretty sure that this is one of those battles that were lost just because of society's negligence. They just told me "melu thottittilla kali venda" to which I pointed out that a head is indeed a body part, to which I got the very classic reply of "youre just overthinking stuff. Ath vidu. Nammal veruthe poti kachara undaaki ayalde praakal medikkenda, kaaranam prashnam valuthaakumbo ellavarum nice aayi kayyozhiyum" So yeah, im completely forbidden from complaining this individually or as a group.

If you had the patience to read this entire rant, thank you. It truly helps. Thank you for being on my side. Even though justice was never served, at least we... did something. Thanks for everything. Really. And I mean it, from the bottom of my heart.

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Lawyers in sub please help

In 2007, my parents trusted their own family during their difficult financial time. Out of love and support, my father gave them ₹25 lakhs, and in return they sold us 30 cents of land in Thrissur. The land was registered in my mother’s name, and we still have the aadharam as proof of the sale.


There was never any discussion that the land would be returned if they repaid the money—it was a genuine, full sale done within the family. But everything changed when my father went abroad for work. Because he was away, my parents couldn’t pay the land tax immediately, and the people we trusted the most took that moment to turn against us.


They filed a false case saying my parents gave only ₹2 lakhs as a loan and that the land was just temporary security. They even told the court that the reason we didn’t pay land tax was because the land wasn’t really sold. Hearing such lies—from our own family—broke my parents emotionally.

The court put an injunction on the property, and the case has been dragging on for years, causing constant stress, fear, and financial pressure. To make things worse, our previous lawyer cheated us too, making us feel completely helpless. And now, after everything they’ve done, those same relatives are offering ₹80 lakhs to settle, even though the land is worth around ₹1.3 crore today. My family is exhausted, emotionally drained, and struggling financially, trapped in a fight we never wanted—all because the people we trusted betrayed us.


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പ്രതിവാരം // Weekly General Discussions Thread - November 23, 2025 - November 29, 2025

Welcome to the weekly general discussions thread. Use this thread for holding discussions that do not deserve a separate thread.

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