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Red car tried to short cut a long lorry into a roundabout and (probably) learned an important lesson on how roundabout are suppose to work

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Need advice — my wife says she has no feelings for me anymore

With regret, I think I might be going through the same thing some people here have shared before.

Earlier this year, my wife told me she no longer has feelings for me. Since then, we’ve been sleeping in separate rooms. I feel disrespected as the head of the family, but I’ve never said it out loud.

She still cooks and does the laundry, but from the start of our marriage, I’ve been the one doing the dishes, cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, preparing breakfast, and ironing clothes. I did all that so she could relax more — and honestly, so there wouldn’t be excuses when it came to intimacy.

But as time went by, sex became rare. Last year, I finally lost my temper and confronted her — and that’s what brought us here today.

I’m ready for divorce, but the thought of shame and the kids keeps holding me back. We’re a Muslim family, and I’ve asked around about the legal process, it feels really embarrassing to go through.

All this has taken a toll on me, even physically. I’ve developed erectile dysfunction because I’ve been bottling everything inside for so long. It’s humiliating and hard to talk about, but it’s part of the reality I’m facing.

Sometimes, I just wish she would pack her bags and leave — it would be easier for me to deal with that than living like this. For my kids, I’m even ready to quit my job if I have to. Because honestly, I can’t think of anything heavier or more shameful than this situation.

Are there any Muslims here who’ve gone through something like this? How did you deal with it — emotionally, legally, and spiritually?

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Genting so cool at night, like a floating city above KL.
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2025/10/25 15:29:42
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