The Surprising Freedom in Not Having Life All Figured Out
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/the-surprising-freedom-in-not-having-life-all-figured-out/
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“Sometimes you have to let go of the life you planned to make room for the life that’s waiting for you.” ~Joseph Campbell
My new motto? Always have a backup plan.
Life rarely goes as you’d imagined.
January 16th, 2001. That’s the day my life trajectory changed irrevocably. That’s the day that would lead me to, eventually, living alone—to being divorced. That’s the day my ex had a ski accident that changed the lives of every member of our immediate family. But today, I don’t want to talk about him or that. I want to talk about my …
My new motto? Always have a backup plan.
Life rarely goes as you’d imagined.
January 16th, 2001. That’s the day my life trajectory changed irrevocably. That’s the day that would lead me to, eventually, living alone—to being divorced. That’s the day my ex had a ski accident that changed the lives of every member of our immediate family. But today, I don’t want to talk about him or that. I want to talk about my …
The Truth About My Inner Critic: It Was Trauma Talking
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/the-truth-about-my-inner-critic-it-was-trauma-talking/
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“I will not let the bullies and critics of my early life win by joining and agreeing with them.” ~Pete Walker
For most of my life, there was a voice in my head that narrated everything I did, and it was kind of an a**hole.
You know the one. That voice that jumps in before you even finish a thought:
“Don’t say that. You’ll sound stupid.”
“Why would anyone care what you think?”
“You’re too much. You’re not enough. You’re a mess.”
No matter what I did, the critic had notes. Brutal ones. And the worst part? I believed every …
For most of my life, there was a voice in my head that narrated everything I did, and it was kind of an a**hole.
You know the one. That voice that jumps in before you even finish a thought:
“Don’t say that. You’ll sound stupid.”
“Why would anyone care what you think?”
“You’re too much. You’re not enough. You’re a mess.”
No matter what I did, the critic had notes. Brutal ones. And the worst part? I believed every …
Anonymous
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"Our land is more valuable than your money. As long as the sun shines and the waters flow, this land will be here to give life to men and animals; therefore, we cannot sell this land. It was put here for us by the Great Spirit and we cannot sell it because it does not belong to us."
http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Anonymous
"Our land is more valuable than your money. As long as the sun shines and the waters flow, this land will be here to give life to men and animals; therefore, we cannot sell this land. It was put here for us by the Great Spirit and we cannot sell it because it does not belong to us."
The Power I Now Carry Because of My Illness
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/the-power-i-now-carry-because-of-my-illness/
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/the-power-i-now-carry-because-of-my-illness/
“Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it.” ~Eckhart Tolle
For years, I thought strength meant pushing through. Getting on with it. Holding it together no matter what. Not showing weakness. Not needing help. Not slowing down.
Even when I was diagnosed with a chronic illness (https://tinybuddha.com/blog/could-curiosity-be-the-best-medicine-for-chronic-illness/), I wore that mindset like armor. I was determined not to let it define me—let alone derail me.
But eventually, it did. Not because I was weak. But because I was human. And that was the beginning of a different kind …
For years, I thought strength meant pushing through. Getting on with it. Holding it together no matter what. Not showing weakness. Not needing help. Not slowing down.
Even when I was diagnosed with a chronic illness (https://tinybuddha.com/blog/could-curiosity-be-the-best-medicine-for-chronic-illness/), I wore that mindset like armor. I was determined not to let it define me—let alone derail me.
But eventually, it did. Not because I was weak. But because I was human. And that was the beginning of a different kind …
W. Somerset Maugham
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"Charm and nothing but charm at last grows a little tiresome. It's a relief then to deal with a man who isn't quite so delightful but a little more sincere."
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"Charm and nothing but charm at last grows a little tiresome. It's a relief then to deal with a man who isn't quite so delightful but a little more sincere."
3 Tools for Burnout Relief (That I’m Using Right Now)
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/3-tools-for-burnout-relief-that-im-using-right-now/
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/3-tools-for-burnout-relief-that-im-using-right-now/
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Burnout has been on my mind a lot lately, and that’s saying a lot since my burnout brain has trouble focusing these days.
Between working from home while raising two young kids and traveling back and forth across the country to spend time with a sick loved one, I’ve felt stretched in more directions than I thought possible. I know many of you can relate to the constant push to keep going even when your body and mind are begging for rest.
That’s why I’m excited to share …
Burnout has been on my mind a lot lately, and that’s saying a lot since my burnout brain has trouble focusing these days.
Between working from home while raising two young kids and traveling back and forth across the country to spend time with a sick loved one, I’ve felt stretched in more directions than I thought possible. I know many of you can relate to the constant push to keep going even when your body and mind are begging for rest.
That’s why I’m excited to share …
How Self-Portraits Brought My Messy, Honest, Beautiful Self into Focus
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/my-messy-beautiful-self-finally-in-focus-how-self-portraits-became-love-letters-to-my-soul/
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/my-messy-beautiful-self-finally-in-focus-how-self-portraits-became-love-letters-to-my-soul/
“And then I realized that to be seen by others, I first had to be willing to see myself.” ~Anonymous
In a world that teaches us to be visible only when we’re polished, productive, or pleasing, I found something unexpected on the other side of my camera: myself.
But not the filtered version. Not the composed one or the “smiling because I’m fine” version.
I found the person I’d forgotten—the one who had spent years loving, giving, showing up for everyone else but rarely turning any of that tenderness inward.
I didn’t pick up the camera to take pretty pictures. …
In a world that teaches us to be visible only when we’re polished, productive, or pleasing, I found something unexpected on the other side of my camera: myself.
But not the filtered version. Not the composed one or the “smiling because I’m fine” version.
I found the person I’d forgotten—the one who had spent years loving, giving, showing up for everyone else but rarely turning any of that tenderness inward.
I didn’t pick up the camera to take pretty pictures. …
Sean Stewart
http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Sean_Stewart
"The present is a rope stretched over the past. The secret to walking it is, you never look down."
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"The present is a rope stretched over the past. The secret to walking it is, you never look down."
Barbara Hall
http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Barbara_Hall
"You're dealing with the demon of external validation. You can't beat external validation. You want to know why? Because it feels sooo good."
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"You're dealing with the demon of external validation. You can't beat external validation. You want to know why? Because it feels sooo good."
Elaine Liner
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"If writers stopped writing about what happened to them, then there would be a lot of empty pages."
http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Elaine_Liner
"If writers stopped writing about what happened to them, then there would be a lot of empty pages."