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I was looking through my old chats today and found one that made me want to disappear. I can’t believe what I did back then. There was this really nice guy polite, caring, and clear about what he wanted. He asked me out twice, I said no both times. The third time, I finally said yes. Then I asked to change the day because I was “busy,” and he agreed. And guess what? I didn’t go. I stood him up. A week later, he texted, “I think you’re not interested. It was great knowing you.” And I replied, “Thanks for understanding.” Like… what was wrong with me? I was too immature back then, but I guess the best I can do now is admit it here.

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I’m 22 handsome uni student እና እንዴት conversation ከ ሴት ጋር መጀመር እንዳለብኝ አላውቅም እና እቺ ልጅ ተመቸችም እንዴት በት ልበል same department አይደለንም እስትቲ ምን ብዬ ልጀምር ልላከፍ ብዬም አቃተኝ እስቲ tip ስጡኝ 🙂


ለወገን ደራሽ ወገን ነውና

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Hey I am 21 M and graduated last year, ena when I was grade 10 my dad arefe ena kezan gize jemiro ene endadig miredagn sew yelem, lerase nw tefcherchre erasen yastemarkut ena egzihaber redtogn Gobez temari kemibalu andi negn ena ezaw bechereskubet gibi keftegna wutet bemamtat ye MSc scholar tesetegn ngr gn ene erasen lemastemar sera yelagnim mnm income magegnibet way yelegnm , yalmokerkut ngr yelem tutoring, delivery, copy and print … gn alchalkum😔… ena guys lilemnachu bemtamnut amlak Muslim be Alah 🤲, Orthodox be Mariyam🤲, Protestant Be kristos 🤲 …. Benatachu sera asgebugn (night shift mesrat echilalew any job)sew lihun, enam ehe edil endayalfegn 🤲 tebaberug…. enat yelegn, Abat yelegn ehit ,wendem yelegn leman ltenfs … Yale enante man alegn?

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I'm f and there is someone that I love so much I love him and so he does but yihen semon betam gira eyagabagn nw kehone gize jemro his behavior betam tekeyere diro saydewl mayadrew lij ahun ene sidewel rasu he didn't answer ayanesam hule demo sle mitwedew lij yaweral esu baywedatm endi hona endi arga yilegna demo bizu gize be akal angenagnm ene temari slehonku ena betam busy honalew gn saldewl aladrm gn ayanesam keza esu betemechew sat yidewlal ke 2 dekika belay anaweram dewlalew blo yizegawal gn melso saydewl yadral enem esun bemetebek saten akatlalew ena mn felge nw bizu hasaboch metulgn selchichew nw or demo kezach lij gar bizu gize slemigenagnu may be kesua gar hono nw besua interested hono nw chirash eko amemegn bilaw hospital wesedat😒 when I think this mnm salnager silken off arge metfat feleku wey demo lanagrew alku yetu yishalal metfatu weys manageru banagrew demo wshet bideredr ene demo zm biye amnewalew I believe him so and neger belugn be geta besu mikniyat hilmen matat alfelgm saten makatel alfelgm enate bizu neger titebkalech esuan masazen alfelgm🥺

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Hey everyone, I need some honest perspectives on a tough personal dilemma. I'm wondering if I should have sex before marriage specifically to gain experience. The main question weighing on my mind is: Does a lack of sexual experience negatively affect a marriage? If you have waited, or know couples who have, what has been your/their experience? I’d especially like to hear from other girls/women—do you feel it has an impact, either good or bad, on your long-term relationship or marriage?

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21 M
This is the story of how I broke up with my last ex.
Aight here goes..... She found me in tg group and we started chatting, and not long enough she told me that she has a feeling for me. But I'm like "why?" Cuz she doesn't know me that much, and she's like "you have cool music taste" bla bla bla..... long story short we start dating.

Tbh she's sooo fine, she just needs a lil more ass but perfect.
And one day I asked her to send me a pic cuz I missed her, and she sent me her pic with her mom, and ong her mom is like super hot fr fr big boobs big fat ass😭😭
And as a joke form I told her that her mom is hotter and got bigger ass. (Stupid me)
And guess what she took it wayy too seriously. And she's like "are you wanna f my mom?" .
...... Annddd she dumped me. 😔

I want her back but idk what to do😭😭


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I end up working in one office with my toxic ex-girlfriend. And it is making my life complicated. It is a bloody hell. My advice; never date anyone from your company.

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Do u know a girl that stays with u even if she has a better option? Coz all i know is yeteshale ngr search endemiyadergu ena siyagegnu endemihedu and why r u girls like this? Why don't u first try to make yalachun ngr the best coz yeteshale yeteshale gar stzelu andunm satyzut u'll end up miserable. Ik u need the three s's(safety,support and stability) from a man gn esum beki adelm level slalew yeteshale ketegegne thedalachu bcha beka yhe sew letdar yhonal emtlut mn stayu nw?

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I am 24 Muslim guy living in Addis most of the time the girls I find are Christians i am very comfortable with them I really afraid to talk with Muslim girls I don’t know why 😁

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21M Ong I need to vent 😭😭😭

እኔ ባለፈው አመት ነው 12 የጨረስኩት፣ እና ለፈተና uv ሄደን የደረሰብኝ ነገር እስካሁን ያሰቃየኛል😭😭

ነገሩ እንዲህ ነው.... ለፈተና uv ከገባንበት ቀን ጀምሮ ሙሉ ጀማው ሴት ማሳደድ ላይ ተጠምደዋል but not me.
It's not cuz ቸካይ ምናምን ሆኜ በቃ on that time ስሜቱ አልነበረኝም።

አንዱ "ዛሬ 6ተኛዬን ጠበስኩ" ሌላው ደሞ "ያቺን ልጅ 8ተኛዬ ነው የማረጋት"...... እኔ ግን ፀጥጥጥ።
የሆነ የሴቶች ጀማ አለ ወደ 5,6 ይሆናሉ they all look በጣም ቆንጆ and በጣም የሀብታም ልጆች። ማንም ወንድ ቀርቦ ለማውራት ድፍረት የለው፣ የኔ ጀማዎቹማ ጭራሽ ነው የሚፈሯቸው።

ከዛም እንዲህ እንዲህ እያለ ፈተናችንን ጨርሰን ለመውጣት 1 ቀን ብቻ ቀረን።
ከዛም የመጨረሻው ፈተና eco ነበር ገና ለመፈተን ስንል ጀምሮ ጭንቅላቴ በጣም እያመመኝ ነበር፣ ከዛ ፈተናው እንደመጣ በ30 ደቂቃ ጨርስኩት፣ ከዛ ቶሎ ቶሎ ብዬ ወደ ዶርሜ ስሄድ ለካ ቁልፉን ለጓደኛዬ ሰጥቼዋለሁ።

ከሁሉም በጣም ቀድሜ ስለነበር ጀማው ሁሌ የሚሰበሰብበት ቦታ ተቀምጬ መጠበቅ ጀመርኩ። ብጠብቅ ብጠብቅ ማን ይምጣ፣ ጭንቅላቴ ደሞ ሊያሳብደኝ ነው፣ ከዛ ተማሪዎች ፈተና እየጨረሱ መውጣት ጀመሩ ያ ተስፋ ሰጠኝ።

እዚች ጋር ነው ጉድ የሆንኩት......
አሁንም ጒደኞቼ አልወጡም፣ ከዛ ያ ቅድም ያወራሁላቹ የቆንጆዎቹ ጀማ አለ አይደል እነሱ በጥቅላላ ወደ እኔ አቅጣጫ መምጣት ጀመሩ። ማርያምን በፍርሀት ሩጥ ሩጥ እያለኝ ነበር but I stayed calm.
ከዛ ከጀማቸው ውስጥ ከሁሉም በውበት የምትበልጠው ነጥል ብላ ወደ እኔ መጣች፣ ከዛ "ለምንድነው ያኮረፍከው?" አለችኝ and I told her "ትንሽ አሞኝ መተኛት ፈልጌ" እንደሆነ ነገርኳት፣ ከዛ ወሬዋን ጀመረች፣ ከዛ እኔ በገባኝም ባልገባኝም "አዎ እሺ" ስል ቆይቼ ልክ "ስልክህን ስጠኝ"  ስትል ጓደኞቼ መጡ፣ and guess what I did......ልክ ጓደኞቼን እንዳየሁ ስልኬንም ሳልሰጥ ሌላ ቃልም ሳላወጣ ብድግ ብዬ ሄድኩ😭😭

ከዛ ዶርም ስንሄድ ለጓደኞቼ የተፈጠረውን ስነግራቸው ሊበሉኝ፣ ከዛ ትንሽ ስንጨቃጨቅ ቆይተን እግር እና እጄን ይዘው ልጆቹን ፍለጋ ጀመርን ግን ልናገኛቸው አልቻልንም። ለካ uv ለቀው ወተዋል።
ጓደኞቼ ሙልጭጭ ሲያደርጉኝ ምንም አልመሰለኝም፣ አሁን አሁን ግን በጣም ይቆጨኛል።😔

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Hello everyone
I'm a 21 year old civil engineering student, a civil engineer who has spent his life thinking about architecture since he was in elementary school, yeah our educational system sucks the path you've been paving for a long time turn as a path you'll never visit or walk on again, a lot of students have gone through this miserable educational system,

​I believe the major reason our country isn't producing outstanding students in various departments is that students choose majors based on what will pay them heftily and not what they are genuinely passionate or skilled about for instance someone who is truly interested and passionate about it related things might be forced to learn something they are not even slightly interested in simply because they weren't trying to score the best grade in chemistry back in grade 12 someone who probably scored the lowest point in chemistry could even get placed in chemical engineering just because other students didn't choose that department, crazy isn't it?

especially when you think about what awaits you outside the university compound it really kills your motivation, I haven't conducted any survey but I'm pretty sure more than 70% of students in universities are attending their classes only to satisfy their parents needs the crazy thing is writing all this wasn't my plan when I started writing while laying on my back looking at this beautiful moon today but I had to say it because hopefully many students will share these same feelings with me.

​Anyway my plan was to write about what life in the university looks like as the freshman students are starting to join the universities now I planned to share all my perspectives on how they should manage things in the university because it’s a place where you'll learn more than anywhere else.

Will do that on my next vent

May God guide us in everything we do

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Hey I’m 21 and live in AA so straight to the point I've never been in a relationship before and there is this girl age 20..we've known each other for some time (6 months) and I'm kinda into her but idk If I should tell her or not ... we kissed like 2 times and we didn't go any further, what do you think fam,what should I do...would it be OK if I asked her out?

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I’ve missed her so much now that she’s really gone. When we were together, I didn’t treat her the way she deserved. I didn’t cheat or lie — I just couldn’t be there the way she needed me to. It’s not that I didn’t want to; I did. I just didn’t have my shit together.

There were days I didn’t want to talk to anyone — not her, not anyone. Days when life itself felt heavy, when I’d lose all my energy and shut down. But it was never about her. I never got tired of her. She was the one person I wanted to hold onto, even when I couldn’t hold onto myself.

I told her that, but she wanted me to open up more. So I tried. I showed her the side of me that was lost, the side I usually hide from everyone. But she didn’t understand. She thought my silence meant I didn’t care, that I wasn’t trying. I wish she could’ve seen it wasn’t distance — it was exhaustion. I was fighting something I couldn’t explain.

And still, I thought we’d be okay. Every time we broke up, I told myself I’d come back better, that love would wait while I figured myself out. But now she’s really gone — she deleted our chats, removed me from everything — and it hit me harder than I ever expected.

For the first time, I realized how much I loved her. How much she meant to me. All the little things I took for granted suddenly feel huge now that they’re gone. If I’d just listened, if I’d just been present, maybe things would’ve been different.

She was perfect in ways I didn’t see until it was too late. I should’ve treated her better. I should’ve been better.

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If this is what they call motherhood, I would pass
If making ur child traumatized is motherhood, I would pass
Cause she made me feel that no one has ever made me feel
even my friend never made me feel this inferior
even my enemy doesn't curse me this much
am not going to say its because of her curse that my life turned out like this because I chose to stay with her, to live with her again
but her words really hurt uk but now I don't feel anything even when outsiders say sth bad to me cause I have heard worse from her
I just want to get away from her
I just want to get out of this life
taking my life isn't worthy...she isn't worthy
but I would do anything to leave this house and never return again
am learning various courses to get a job and get out because I feel hopeless when am around her
mother was supposed to give hope to her child
mother was supposed to cheer her child and support her child to survive in this harsh world
but her...
but this woman is really evil
she is the most hypocrite person I have ever seen in my whole life
I hate her
I hate this family
I hate this life
but I will make it work
I will get out of here and never look back and never call her my mother

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This question is mainly for my dudes. Okayyyy so here we go. First of all, don’t judge me yall but I am currently on my “not interested in dating” era and going with FWB. I had multiple FWB before and we were mainly doing cuddles. It first starts off as just hugging and it kinda escalates. The point is this is not my first rodeo. For example, I got a new FWB last week. We both cleared out we have no feelings for eachother and we only have physical connection. that’s what I thought. Untilllll like any other times, as the cuddles go by things starts adding up. gentle forehead kisses, gentle face rubs, scratching head, patting my hair, running fingers on my back and thigh, smelling my neck, complementing my scent and my skin softness…… it goes on. And I am just sitting there like okkaayyy how can you do all that with no emotions because I can’t. For me, I just want to cuddle. I am small so I just want to snuggle on their chest and just enjoy the warmth. Literally like a cat. Maybe enjoy their natural pheromones too 🤭 it really has a calming effect. This keeps happening multiple times while I don’t want to do anything intimate. The only thing I will be doing is probably running my fingers on their chest or smelling their neck. Just that! Oh forgot one thing. I want my buddies to feel cared so I switch to the bigger spoon so they can lie on me and I massage their head. Yeap that’s just it. No kisses no body rubs no nothing.

So the main question to my great gents who have been in FWB before is, can you guys do all this soft soft stuff without any little bit of feelings towards her? I want to know how yall think. For my beautiful ladies, you can also drop a comment if you can relate.


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28 M , kezih befit serious yehone relationship norogn ayakm yehonu setoch ymetalu yihedalu i think am not good relationshipn menkebakeb lay gn yan yaklm aschenkogn ayakm but now a days yemagbat flagote betam chemere from no where ena wede kiflehager semonun heje neber ena dro lij eyalehu yemakat ye gorebetachn lij ga teyayen dro betam lij neberech almost 8 amet ebeltatalehu ene keza swota i was 10 and she was 2 years old ena lekifum ledegum bye slkuan tekebyat temelesku ena be text and tg lay mawrat jemern she is so nice and also v gn ene fikr yemibalew smet yelegnm minoregnm aymeslegnm gn metfo sew aydelehum sibeza positive negn ena mn asebku be achr gize wust bayihonm within next one and two years bagebat yemil hasab asebku ena mn liteyikachu felge new and sew ga be tidar lemenor yegd sewoch yemilutn ayinet dbn yale fikr liyzen yigebal koy kalyazens beka zm blen new sanageba yemininorew bzw esua kene ga behonua destegna nech fikr wust nech milewn ergetegna balhonm ena it is also distance relation.s new mihonew esketewesene gize. so please give me ur advice

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Hello people, female here, anyone who can help
I don’t know how to describe this anymore. It’s like my soul has been searching for a home it will never find. I’ve tried everything—praying until I cried, reading the Bible, worshipping, fasting—but even when I was closest to God, I felt a silence that tore through me. And when I turned away and tried to find comfort in other things—in pleasure, in numbness, in distractions—I still felt empty, like I was being punished either way.

There’s no peace on either side. Not in faith, not in sin, not in living, not in dying. It feels like I’m stuck in a space between tortures—awake but not alive, breathing but not free. I can’t rest even when I sleep.

I’ve questioned everything- Why was i created to exist forever, even when existence itself becomes unbearable? Once created, you can never un-exist. Even death isn’t an escape; it’s just another form of eternity, another unknown. Suicide isn’t even a choice—it’s just another non‑resting place with a different kind of torment.

Maybe I’m one of those souls that will never find true rest. Because Jesus said, “No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws them” (John 6:44). What if I was never chosen, never drawn? Because if the Father doesn’t draw you, you won’t truly know Jesus Christ—and that thought haunts me.

I tried to accept my fate, to live knowing I might not be the “favored child,” maybe even accepting the possibility of hell. But I couldn’t. And I couldn’t accept heaven either—not because I felt unworthy of it because no one is, that's why he had to come down and die for us, but because to reach heaven, one must be reborn. To be reborn means to be transformed by His love. The love of God is supposed to change you, to free you from your sins—but where was that love that transforms?
I knew about Him, I believed in Him, I longed for Him—but I couldn’t become like Him. I couldn’t crucify my flesh for Him. I tried not to care, to live as if He didn’t matter, and accept maybe my nature was evil, but even then I couldn’t. When people mock Him, when they twist His name, something in me burns. I ache for Him. I love Him enough to hurt for Him—yet I can’t fully surrender to Him. I know His worth, His beauty, His purity—He’s the most sacred thing heaven or earth has ever known—and yet my heart keeps betraying Him. It’s like I’m caught in the middle, torn between wanting to die for Him and not being able to live for Him.
Everyone says, “Have patience, have faith, wait on God.” But I’ve waited. I’ve forced myself to pray, to worship, to go through the motions, but it feels like faking love—like mimicking a feeling I no longer have. It’s like watching yourself from outside your body, pretending to cry, pretending to believe, just so you can feel what you want to feel again. But I can’t. The connection is gone. And I don’t know what this is anymore—is it spiritual death, or is it something mental? Is there even a diagnosis for this kind of emptiness?

And dealing with this in addition to everything else—the loneliness, the way no one seems to understand, the way people think I’m just “mentally sick,” the battle with addiction—it’s exhausting. It’s like my soul is constantly longing and aching, but never answered. Just torture, torture, torture—existing without peace.

Sometimes I get jealous of people who can just be. People who laugh, fall in love, live their life simply. I see them and wonder, why can’t life be that easy for me? Why do I have to be the one carrying this kind of pain? Why do I have to be the one whose soul keeps breaking while everyone else just gets to exist?
and i don't even know why i am venting, maybe it's good to let it out once in a while, if you’ve ever felt this kind of exhaustion—the kind that makes you question creation, eternity, and even God Himself—please, talk to me. I need to know I’m not the only one who feels this way.

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