A piece of advice - Don't get attached!

(I know I am not entitled to give advice, and I hate doing so. But who cares? 😂)

Starting from an early age, I've had the chance to be with many individuals as friends and brothers. Only a few of them are still in my life, while the rest have moved on. I'm quite sure they barely remember me. I always find myself blaming myself for their departure and living in the nostalgia of our memories.

And now, probably in the middle of my life, I realized attachment is the source of most pains. All the little scratchs on the wall of my heart ቢኮዛቸው attachment ነው 😅 ብዙ የቅርቤ ያይደሉ ሰዎች ብዙ ነገር ሲሉኝ ወይ ሲያደርጉብኝ ልቤ ድንጋይ የሆነ ያህል ምንም ሳይሰማኝ ሲቀር፤ የቅርቤ ያልኳቸው ደግሞ ለእነርሱ እንኳን በማይታወቅ አኳኋን፣ ከምንም በሚቆጠር ድርጊታቸው ብዙ ቆስያለሁ። እና ዛሬ መለስ ብዬ ሳስባቸው የማልረሳቸው ክፉ ትዝታዎቼ ከመቀራረብ የመነጩ መስለው ይታዩኛል። መስታወትን ይበልጥ የሚሰብረው ከሩቅ ነው ከቅርብ የተወረወረ ድንጋይ?

People are beautiful and loveable. But they are people after all. They have much in their own plates. No matter how much you love them, how hard you try, and to what extent you want them to stay, ultimately they will go - in one or another way.

የሆነ የሔኖክ ግጥም አለ that touched my heart - "አንዳንድ ሰዎች ማለት ጥርጊያ መንገድ ናቸው እስከሰዎች ድረስ" የሚል። እውነት ነው! ቢመረንም ቢጥመንም በቃ አንዳንዶቻችን ወደሌሎች ሰዎች የምናደርስ መንገዶች ነን። መንገድ ደግሞ ከመንገደኛው በፍቅር መክነፍ የለበትም - መንገደኛው ሂያጅ ነውና! People come and people go. It's not because they are bad, it's just because that's how life functions and how the system is wired. If things ain't working, you gotta smile and move on - there are much in life!

እና ሰውን መውደድ፣ ለቀረቡን ሁሉ መልካም መሆን እንዳለ ሆኖ ከሰዎች ጋር ያለንን attachment መቀነስ ከብዙ ሕመም ይጠብቀናል። Eat, laugh, enjoy, talk, fight with them but there should be some boundary. ብንችል priority መስጠት ያለብን ለራሳችን ነው! የሆነ ቀን ብቻችንን ስንቀር ከሁለት ያጣ እንዳንሆን!

እና ይሄ ነገር ልጅ ሳለሁ ቢገባኝ ኖሮ ከብዙ ሕመም ባመለጥኩ ነበር! I have been through a lot and it's not worth it - believe me, it's not totally worth it!!

Have a good night!
❤

My heart aches for the adults I see around me.
Holding to their only hope that is God and doing their best to survive. Because you can see “I wish I could have been this but my time is up” written all over their wrinkles and slumped shoulders. Just sitting and admiring the success and wins of their friends, with a genuine heart even.

As much as I feel for them, it’s a painful truth that I don’t want to end my days like them.

በመከኑ ሕልሞች ፣ ሠርቷት ሙዚቀኛው
ምኞት ነው ቅኝቷ ፣ ሕይወቴ ባብዛኛው

Addiction is so gruesome. It feeds on your life however it desires. What is worse is watching it feed on the life of your loved ones and children and them suffering because of it.

"Stop trying to save everyone you touch,thats not the right way to love."

"መጠበቅ........ግማሽ ተስፋ ግማሽ ጥርጣሬ......የተዋሀደ መብሰክሰክ"

@Abuti_Engida

እቃን ደሞ ሲከፋፍሉት ፥ ቋሚና አላቂ እንደሚሉት ታውቃላችሁ? አላቂነቴን እፈራዋለሁ...

"በህብረት የብሶት መድረክ ልንከፍት ነው ወይ?" እንዳትሉኝ እንጂ this is your reminder that you got a friend in me. Whatever you want to talk about or if you wanna have a venting session with a stranger I am here. @Chesed_29

A woman was explaining on tiktok that its possible to love each heart like your first love and that the only difference is each time you will find a better way to refine your heart before giving it to someone and i believe there is some truth to it.

"Candles,by design,burn and
Life,by design,ends
In the mean time doesn't it smell nice?"

When those days come that feel like የሚያልፍ የማይመስሉ and everything suffocates you even the most minor thought I hope ትንንሽ የሚባሉ ግን soothing የሆኑ encounters like a kind gesture or a smile from a stranger come your way to calm your heart and remind you that these days are passing too.

ቀን ቆጥረን አዲስ አመት ልንይዝ መሆናችንን ሳስበው ይደንቀኛል......እንዴት እንዳሳለፍኩት ሳስብ ደግሞ "የት ነበረኩ?" ያስብላል as I look back on everything. "Is it worth it?" የሚል ጥያቄ ጭንቅላቴ ላይ የመጣ አይመስልም on how I betrayed myself on most of the decisions I made. I amnot yet ready to unpack it all fully ግን just this simple realization didnot go well.

የመጣው የሄደው ሰው ሁሉ ልባችሁን አያውርደው.....Guard your heart!

The notion of things fleeting and passing like nothing is so fascinating to me. An inferno that robbed you off your peace and tortured you as if your skin was being peeled off, now just gone and there’s nothing but memories left. The same truth for happy days too.